Sunday, January 07, 2007

Makeover???
i came across what a person close to me feels about me on a certain aspect...it just compels me to think if i am really not presentable...i mean i don't have the frills and air and graces of a typical girl...i don't spend an obscene amount of money on my self...i don't visit the parlour often....i don't do make up nor can am i a pro at it....most often than not i am not bothered about how i look...whether my kajal has smudged or my hair is ruffled....and i think that is so me...getting dressed for nothing doesn't appeal to me but ya occasions are exceptions,i do dress up then....you cannot really call me uncouth or a total geek or gypsy girl...but then after the comment yesterday and yet again today i am forced to consider a few things... should i be a bit more conscious about the way i present myself?or should i be the way i am?will it be right to change myself ?or do i hold on to my individuality and be myself.....the comment was heart breaking and humiliating...and to an extent baseless yet somehow it has left an impact on me and now i am confused....any kind of advise and suggestions are a welcome....

15 comments:

Cin said...

Silly Girl! Go to the mirror and look at yourself right now. You are beautiful inside and out. You must always be yourself. Will comment in detail in a private email to you.

Cindy

priyanka sarkar said...

raka dear!!!
makeover is for those who rnt confident abt theirselves!!
its weird how ppl call change of appearance as makeover....
chill out!!ur gorgeous:)

Raka said...

@cindy....thankx :) :)

Raka said...

@priyanka di...
you just confirmed what even i feel..thankx

priyanka sarkar said...

Hey raka....i know!!:)
btw do glance n leave ur comments at my recent post!!!
wud b eager to get ur views on it!!

Raka said...

@priyanka di
yea surely will look in ur blog...

Dipyaman said...

Be the person u r Raka !!
Don ever change for anyone..
Poeple will love you, the way you are..
If dey really care for u, dey will never ask u to change..and those who will ........


Make ups r just for people who r not sure and confident of der looks..What the hell will u do with these stupic make ups?Just to look beautiful?I think u know this pretty well Raka..Its not the external appearance but the internal beauty that matters the most !!
So b Beautiful from inside(Which i know u r)n dat will suffice to make u a perfect beautiful human being :-)

disillusioned/clueless said...
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disillusioned/clueless said...

MAKE UP...u mean pasting those gooey stuffs and looking like a martian?babes wat is fashion in ju ?wearing rubber sandals or smudging ur kajal so much dat u end up lookng like a witch?...u knw wats presentable in true sense??being NORMAL..and the world will thank u for it.and its also true dat in our studnt life the amnt of time crunch dat we face doesnt exacltly allow us to spend hrs b4 the mirror so chill nxt time smone bitches abt u...tell the idiot that if he/she has so much time in their lives they can start by givng u a manicure....haaaahhhh

Diviani said...

na na. amar makeover chai. ei same chehra ta ayena e dekhe dekhe poche gechi.

i'm having this continuing love affair with kajal. i loooooooove it. love it love it.

Raka said...

@dippo
i wasnt talking about make up...that was just the pic...lol :)

Raka said...

@thankx clueless....next time u n me can gang upon ppl who bitch about the way we look and beat them to pulp...wat say?

Raka said...

@diviani
if u need a make over then i need a plastic surgery...christ!:(

Diviani said...

na na orkum drastic kichu na.

tao. reinvention is good dontcha think?

Little Dandelion "My tomorrows will shine" said...

Likewise, Raka...of course you can totally blogroll me...do i have your permission to do the same? =)

And whoever told you you need a makeover is somebody who needs an eye check up right NOW.