i came across an article that said a couple of many years split for some issue that could have been resolved this made me think of nature of such relationships that couldn't sustain the strains that life put on us....since reading the article i have been puzzling over an hypothetical situation...and even after a lot of musings..i cant seem to take it out of my mind...so i thought id just put it up on my blog and let my blogger friends help me resolve my puzzle
a girl meets a boy...they become good friends...then they fall in love...their life is almost perfect...he and she is both compatible on every ground....months turned into years and it was time for them to take the next step...since till now almost both their families were accepting towards their relationship...there wasn't a hitch,but then problems seem to rise....the guy turned out to be an escapist of sorts...he dint aspire to live a better life,which most of his peers strove for and got...maybe he thought that for him his being in love meant more than earning well....he talks about this to his girl...she says...you are able in every way,when you can achieve more why settle for less..life doesn't thrive on love,one needs a good living too...this angered the guy...he started thinking that she was just using him..in his anger he talks about her background..which may not have been totally spotless but not undignified too...and till then it never posed a problem....but then now it seemed like an unforgivable sin...till that day the girl didnt even know that the guy felt that way about her...here begins their problems...should they break off while there is still time....or should they be together compromising their lives just for old times sake...
now a few question arises...and i hope you guys help me revolve it....
*was the girl wrong is wanting a proper life for herself?[because there was scope it wasn't as if there was no other way but to live life the contrined way...]
*would a father give his daughter away to a well educated guy but with peanuts for salary...and subject his daughter to hardships in life...
*would the girl be able to bring the guy of her choice to her father,knowing well he cannot keep her happy and that life could be full of hardship
*will love sustain all???
*what will the guy do in a case like this,when he can strive for a better life but he wont for some trivial reason?
*is the girl just really using him?
*was the guy right to hurt the girl by bringing up her background???