Wednesday, August 13, 2008

One thing that annoys me about people is their callous approach to life or things. Somehow I can deal with other flaws but however I can never come to terms with how a person deals with life in a nonchalant manner. They have this easygoing and laid back attitude. Often people will assume that world revolves around them and will function according to their own rules. For them it’s fine if they miss their flight, for their will catch the next one. If they have to submit a form somewhere, they will wait till the last day. They will stall doing a particular thing, which maybe of more importance than smoking up with their other friends. Its one big party, they are always up to some trick, even the most serious occasions seem funny to them, emotions seem trivial and maturity a fools burden of life. They may appear pleasing and almost entertaining to most, they maybe an obvious choice for frequenting or bonding but after a time they sure do get to you. Even their never-ending optimism makes you feel sick of them.

Maybe I am too much of a perfectionist here, but then life is so valuable, and to see people always taking it easy, bending a rule now and then, and doing their bit in their own sweet time not caring a bit of what others feel or do is something I consider somewhat illogical and extremely callous. Moreover, how can you always adopt this happy go lucky attitude towards things that may not be as trivial as you think they are? Optimism works wonders but sugary saccharine attitude frankly gets to me. I hate people who always have this attitude, as if life is one big joy ride.

Somehow I have always valued life; I have seen things and have always had a rather serious and matured way of looking at it and dealing with it. So when I see such people, I feel that they are a mere waste.

Call me demented or a moron. But one who hasn’t prioritized his/her life may be the flavor of the season, but soon after the joy ride is over, gets trashed and thrown out before he/she even knows it. So all those of the likes do -Review and reanalyze yourself!

11 comments:

Abhishek Khanna said...
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Raka said...

@abhishek
i think i already banned you from commenting...and i mean it...kindly follow the rules.... if not from next time onwards i will have to delete your comments

-phoenix

Aneesh said...

Interesting post!
Had to think a lot. Life is a long journey and we never know when it ends. So, seeing life in a joyful, funny manner is ok. But, life is composed of a lot of incidents/problems/whatever and you need separate methods to view it in the right manner, we can be optimistic but not careless. Also, we cannot be too serious about life 'coz it takes the joy out of it even 'coz of simple matters. So, the bottom line is life should be a mixture of these things, but we need to choose the correct one at the correct time :)

Sunshine gal said...

Now now..do i know wer dis post stemmed from??or do i just think dat i knw??? [:P]

Mez said...

That's being harsh...we still nice people with good heart.

U can't be hatin us THE IMPERFECTIONISTS

Princess Mia said...

hey mate, now thats not true, just cos some people r laid back in life doesnt athey dont value life to be precious. the positive side of this attitude is tat one is not always on the run mate, that i have to do this then do that n plan everything, they take it as it comes....

I dunno if u have ever been to Australia, ppl r so laid back there n they enjoy every min of life cos they r not always in a rush...

may be in yur post u were talking abt extreme cases who just take life evry very lighty. Cos i am the last mins types, laid back n i enjoy life...

btw thanks for dropping by at my diary. See ya around

Chao.

ceedy said...

Life is fun to live because there is variety...

If everyone is like you are or you imagine...what will you crib about...what will you improve, what will you ignore, what will you learn...

are you looking to be a perfect robot or an ok human being...

you have to ask these questions....

phoenix said...

@abhishek
thanks for removing your comment...i appreciate it :)

@aneesh
hmm now thats a great thought!

@ipsy
now...i think you think you know what it is but what you think is not what is...its random

@mayank
c'mon i dont hate im-perfectionists! and do i seem to be a moron here? or what? i thought i was a nice and simple girl who hates no one

@princess mia
yeah was talking about extreme cases not people in general..

will keep visiting :)

@ceedy
i accept your point :) but like i said im not talking generally but a specified group of people who just take life for a joy ride and jeer at others for not being frivolous like them.

Keshi said...

lol I agree with ya. I dun like procrastination.

:)

Keshi.

ceedy said...

ok...then show my comment to them and ask them to ask questions...that what if I was like you then whose leg will you pull or whom will you irritate...

Raka said...

@keshi
lol!

@ceedy
if it was that easy...then there would be no problems at all :)